Adoption?? ok ke?

Assalamualaikum

Lama dah tak ade new entry kan..

Nothing much to say , except that lately, I have become one of those person that somehow gave up.
Most of everything I worked, hoped and wished for this year seem like going directly to the garbage.
A little frustrated *no, a LOT frustrated* with how things turn out this year.
Lately ni lagilah...rasa macam nak bawa diri jauh aje.

Been thinking of adopting a child : tak tau good idea ke tak. Really can't decide. Maybe it's too early but on the other hand, time is running out. Sangat takut I'd be wasting my time if I wait. Hubby saya yang selama ini sangat kuat, dah mula kelihatan sedikit sedih. Walaupun dia cube nak hide perasaan dia tu, saya masih boleh nampak. Satu hari dia kata "b hari tu naik lif dengan ...... (one pregnant lady). b rasa macam nak amik perut dia letak kat perut ayang" ok, airmata tetibe nk menitis pulak.

"b, b tunggu ayg kasi anak dekat b tahun depan,Insyaallah"
"ayg, b tunggu selamanya pun tak ape"

Sadisss... sampai sekrang tengok muka hubby yang sedang nyenyak tido pun rasa sayu.

ok berbalik pasal adoption ni. Saya dah banyak kali browse through website ni www.orphanecare.org.my dan dah beberapa kali teragak untuk mengisi borang, dan malam ini telah berjaya memberanikan diri.

Ini content email diaorg reply:

Dear Prospective Adoptive/Foster Parent(s),
Thank you for registering with OrphanCARE and we will contact you in due course to set up an interview appointment.
Meanwhile, please prepare and ensure you bring the following documents to your interview to help us expedite your application for adoption with JKM (Malaysian Welfare Department).
OrphanCARE will only send complete applications to JKM so please provide all documents in the checklist below.

Checklist for all applicants :
1) All applicants must be married for at least five (5) years. This requirement does not apply if you have a medical condition that hinders you from having a child and have supporting medical reports.
2) Four (4) copies of recent passport-sized photographs.
3) Four (4) copies of identification card.
4) Four (4) copies of marriage certificate.
5) Four (4) copies of general medical report (required) and, specific consultant’s report pertaining to fertility issues/treatment (if any). Providing supporting medical reports will help strengthen your application for adoption.
6) Four (4) copies of latest salary slip.
7) Names, addresses and contact numbers of two references (non-family members).
*Please bring original document for items (3), (4), (5) and (6) for verification.

The interview and application process is as follows:
• You will be required to fill up an application form for JKM when you come in for your interview.
• JKM will receive three copies of the documentation you provided with the application form once you have been interviewed. OrphanCARE retains one copy for our records.
• It will take approximately four weeks for JKM to process your application.
• JKM will return all applications to OrphanCARE once they are approved or rejected.
• OrphanCARE will immediately inform you if your application is rejected.
• You will automatically be placed in our database in a queue once your application is approved by JKM.

• OrphanCARE will contact you for a second interview once a child is available.

• Please do not hesitate to contact our office on (03)78761900 or email us at adoption@orphancare.org.my if you have any questions relating to the documentation required.

Alahai, kena at least 5 years kawin pulak :-( anyway, no harm done. Apelah salahnya. Jika jalan ni dipermudahkan Allah, terima ajelah. Jika tidak akan cube sedaya upaya untuk meneruskan usaha yang tak seberapa ini.amin.

kawan kawan yang ade idea atau nasihat, jangan malu malu,sila lah drop komen..terima kasih